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writes: i asked this girl to the christmas ball. i asked over msn. she said she may not go but i still asked her, she accepted but said only if she goes. i was suprised she accepted. anyway is she just being nice? anyway i can ask her at school tomorrow? she's very shy so it's hard to talk. i've never seen her with boy's but alot of the boys fancy her coz she is really pretty but dont approach because she is quiet and dont know how she'll react. although i did and it went fine. we dont talk much but it maybe awkward tomorrow. any ideas of talkin to her? askin her if she's just bein nice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2006): Well the only way to find out for sure is to ask her... If she's as shy and quiet as you say she is, just ask to speak with her in private... I'm sure she'd appreciate that rather than been asked in front of loads of people
When is your christmas ball?? Ask her to spend time with you so you both can get to kno each other before the ball and at least that way you won't feel awkward in each other's company... And you will feel more comfortable in each other's company then...
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (12 December 2006):
 I dont feel it is necessary to ask her if she was just being nice. Wait for the christmas ball and see for yourself. If she is the shy type as you say dont give her the opportunity to break free from your arrangement. It might have taken her overcoming alot of nerves to even have agreed to go out with you. I really dont think she is being nice, if she is shy as you said i think she might really want to go with you for her to voice it out.
Christmas time is usually the time with alot of parties and events. Perhaps she isnt too certain that she or her family wont have other events to attend at that particular time. Just be patient with her, continue talking to her about other stuff and gain her confidence.
Goodluck dear.
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