A
male
age
41-50,
*amirgupta
writes:Hello,I am writing this letter to seek your valuable advise. There is this woman working in the same building as me but in a different office. When she joined her office, she was introduced to me by the HR who is common to both of us. It has been almost two years that I have known this woman. We meet very infrequently, and at times we interact through email. I find her attractive but never got a chance to express my feelings. However, in the last week I was somehow having a very strong desire of meeting her and somehow I could not stop myself passing by her office hallway on some pretext. Deep down, I had a strong urge to meet her. As the luck would have it, I met her in the hallway. When she asked me where I was going, I said I was going to the cafe. She then gently patted my arm and said she had been thinking of me of late and wanted to get in touch with me. She asked me if I have time for a coffee to which I gladly agreed. We then sat over in the cafe, for about an hour and a half. We told each other how we had been all these days. The talk was going fine and pretty smooth. During the talk, she made a reference of herself that she is 29 and her parents are persuading her to marry. She then told me she doesn't have a boyfriend as yet. She then indirectly asked me my career plans and what I have thought about my life and marriage. the talk was them somehow interrupted as she got a call back from her office. She told she would be happy to join me when I am around next time in the cafe and that I should let her know when I am around.Based on what I have told in the above story, my question isIs she interested and attracted towards me?Is she thinking of me as a potential life partner? Reply to this Question
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reader, samirgupta +, writes (30 May 2012):
samirgupta is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey Sageoldguy1465,
Thanks a lot. She is 10 years younger to me and apparently is not aware of this age gap. I am wondering if this age gap would be healthy for us in a long term fulfilling relation ship. Though mentally, I feel as young as she is.
I look forward to your reply.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (29 May 2012):
 I'd say the only way she could more-flagrantly "tell" you that she's interested, would be if she hired a hot-air balloon to land outside your building with a HUGE neon sign on it that said: "Hey samirgupta, want to see what I look like naked???? If "yes," please call (her phone number)..."This one is just too easy.....
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (29 May 2012):
 She is pretty forward about it. I hope that didn't stop you from chasing her? I get she is Indian too? She seems very confident that she can "get" you. You should be flattered. You should definitely call her.
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