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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I ask this because ever since I first glanced at his text messages which was when we first started dating (almost two years ago) was because he was texting his ex-girlfriend...I guess they were still trying to clear some things up. Since then, she has come up every now and then for crappy reasons...either way I've found it hard to trust him and have been looking at his texts/facebook messages every now and then to see what he's saying to other girls. Honestly, I do this because I feel like I can't trust him...and I'm curious - I guess. I feel like I would never know these things unless I look. And I have found times when he's been texting her/messaging her online and it really bugs me...though it's nothing lovey dovey at all or anything of that sort, I just get really angry because I simply am NOT comfortable with that. I guess he just wants to be on good terms with her but it really really pisses me off. I get really paranoid and annoyed...and I feel like I can't confront him about it because I feel like I'm at wrong for looking at his texts/online messages. I need help. I want to stop reading his texts/online messages because I feel like I'm doing something wrong but then again I don't because if I would have never looked I would never know if he was hiding something from me..You know? What should I do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question*SighThank you guys for all your honesty, that's seriously what I needed.
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