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writes: I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and although I love him very much I feel a bit trapped in the relationship. He is 10 years older than me and I feel as though I am living the life of a much older woman and missing out. But i do love him and he would change if I told him. I have recently cheated on him and cannot stop thinking about the other guy. I feel awful but honestly do not know what to do, i don't want to tell him and hurt him but does this mean our relationship is coming to an end?
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (9 May 2006):
 If somethings dont change then the answer has to be yes. Obviously this other guy has/is giving you something that you dont have in your current relationship. Your choices now pretty much fall into two options:
1) Try and fix your current relationship - tell your bf how you feel and what you feel is lacking in your relationship and see what happens, if things change then you may find the relationship rivatalised. If they dont you may still end up at option 2....
2) End your current relationship. Its not fair to have your cake and eat it, it is my view that if you cant be faithful to a partner then you should end the relationship, ideally before you cheat but if not soon after, that is if you are not prepared to mend your current relationship.
What you do is of course up to you. Good luck and take care.
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