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writes:I am 48 (look 38) and dating a 28 year old former stripper who manages apartments. We have been dating a year and a half and have lived together for one year. Her mother recently died. After the funeral, she explained to me that she suddenly does not know what she wants anymore and that because I am working out of town, she feels lonely. I recently noticed she has been going out a lot and I intercepted a message to her asking her to call "LP" Is she cheating?
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reader, Older Guy +, writes (6 April 2008):
Older Guy is verified as being by the original poster of the questiongreat answers! I need to add that the stripper career ended 5 years ago, but I concur that I have vested into a person who is at best narcisistic.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2008): She doesn't have a moral compass to begin with? I don't agree with that statement at all! Dude....why don't you talk to your girl and find out what is really going on.BadVoiceWash.DC
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2008): You are 20 years older than a stripper who manages apartments.....first off she is a stripper, she doesn't have a moral compass to begin with. To ask if she is cheating is stupid.....it doesn't mean she isn't she could or she could be lacking opportunity, the point is, she doesn't know that she wants you. It doesn't matter what age you look like....for you it is obviously about sex, for her it was about sex, since her mother died she may be having an epiphany about her shallow lifestyle....I wouldn't look to deep into this shallow pool, I would just take note and act accordingly. Sorry, I think you have invested in something that isn't worth your heart.
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