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writes:I'm 15 and I've never had a boyfriend, and I don't know why. I'm intelligent and even went to and placed in state track this year(as a freshman). Unfortunately, my self-esteem is practically non-existant. Could this be preventing me from having a boyfriend? I know that I certainly lack confidence in myself. Please help!
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reader, earth angel  +, writes (13 May 2007):
 hi
have you thought about why your self esteem is so low? finding that out that may help you to overcome feeling down on yourself.
if you are intelligent that is a bonus and it may help to find someone who has similar interests to you.
what is important is how you feel inside.
having a boyfriend does seem important at your age to fit in with the rest.
you have loads of time ahead of you to workon that one..think about making friendsips first and making yourself feel confident first before taking on a boy...
many regards
earth angel
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reader, loretta +, writes (13 May 2007):
 u r only 15 n u av got all the time in the world for relationships, however dont feel like u need to rush n get a boyfriend straight away. i remember when i was at school n all the girls in my year all had boyfriends n it made me feel that i had to have 1! so i did get 1, he was an older guy n he made my life hell, this is coz i felt i needed to have a boyfriend n fit in with the other prettier girls!!! wat am tryin to say is wen the times rite u will find that special some1 who will love u 4 who u r n treat u like a princess! as 4 ur low esteem, dnt worry that will grow as u get older, wen i was ur age i felt as if the whole world was laughin at me!! i felt coz am not blonde n pretty n wore loads ov make-up that no one wud ever look twice at me but i was so wrong!! just dnt rush into things n enjoy the time uve got, its precious!! take care x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2007): I agree with Kenny, I was almost 20 when I got my first girlfriend. You might feel like you are missing out but with relationships also come heartache and pain. Your self-esteem will grow as you mature so enjoy what you have now without feeling like you are lacking in something because you're not, you're perfectly normal.
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reader, kenny +, writes (13 May 2007):
 You are still very young, you have got all the time in the world to meet someone. As you mature and reach 17 18 19 you will change alot, and you self esteem and confidence will grow with you.
Enjoy being young, have fun with you mates, and don't stress to much about not having a boyfriend at this time, it will happen, most likely when you least expect it.
Good luck x
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