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*MLBabyDoll
writes:Hey i would love if you'd help me out...I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4month now, the past several days while he's talking to me he's also talking to his friends but i overherd..this is what he said -Friend, "So are you goin to meet (female name)? If you do are you going to dress nice?" -Bf "Yeah im gunna dress nice." Minutes later they said they were going to the movies....hmm ok, tonight i got maybe a total of 5 mins to talk to him but before, i was talking to his friends(i didnt know it wasnt my bf till josh said sumthin)- i had ask where my bf was,(shower) now im 3hours behind him so its 11:37pm there(that was then now 1:25am)....Just where would the boyfriend of mine be at 11:30 to some late time? Do you think he's cheating or something? i tried talking to him this morning, but he never got back to me........(this is a lond distance relationship) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): It doesn't seem like he is as keen on a relationship as you are but nevertheless before you get worked up and upset, tell him how you're feeling calmly. If he listens and tries to adjust to your needs ...this reinforces that communication is key and how he feels about you. If he just brushes it off or makes excuses why he shouldn't spend more time on you and sacrifice some other activity as it is long distance, then don't try to force hiom, argue, threaten, figure out ways to manipulate him to do it...Not that you would under normal circumsatnces but just avoid thess things at all costs! Just find other activities to do as well and make friends...Remember you are still young and he may not know how to manage a relationship and give you the attention you need(even most adult haven't mastered this).Well if put into practise... This will work for you...Good luck
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