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writes: i think my boyfriend is up to something, i don't know what, he disappears for no reason.. tells me he has to go the bank.. i don't know.. he gets defensive when i ask him where he's been. i've caught him lying about silly samll things..please help Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): Dear Poster
I agree with "Kinky boots"; you are not his doormat; sit him down and have a good heart to heart chat; tell him in a very loving and calm maner that you deserve better treatment; either he shows you more RESPECT or MOVE ON; if you are going to allow him to "walk" over you now; things will just worse in the future.
Be strong and think about longterm;
Best wishes and lots of SMILES
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