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Is my boyfriend bi or gay? Or do I just not know how to take a joke?

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Question - (12 June 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 June 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hello. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now, and i noticed his behavior changing. He has asked me to toss his salad, when we r intimate in the 69 position, he pushes my face in his rear area, he owns a dildo that was part of a halloween costume and he never got rid of it. In april he told me to browse the internet on his laptop while he got in the shower. I of course went through the history on his computer and I found pages of him looking on Craigslist.com looking for casual encounters, like male for male, threesome's, but mostly bicurious ads. He is very persistent on getting me to do anal sex, but like i have told him, its just not going to happen. When i asked him about the ads he said he was just testing me to see if I would snoop around in his stuff. Then ha said it was funny to him the stuff people post on there, he gave me a whole lot of excuses. I seriously think he is either gay or bisexual. I need an outsider's opinion. What do you think?

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A female reader, rambini United Kingdom +, writes (12 June 2010):

rambini agony auntMany people have fantasies, it sometimes means they want those fantasies in real life, other times it just remains a fantasy. It will be very difficult to find out which it is. I have a friend who enjoys giving anal sex to his girlfriend, and also (sorry for the crudeness) enjoys her pleasuring him by putting her fingers in his anus, but he is straight. so i guess what im trying to say is that everyone enjoys different things, it is not as black and white as saying bi or straight. the only way to know will be to talk to him and hope he can open up to you, but i wouldn't feel too concerned at the minute, take care x

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