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writes:I am 24 and I love humping pillows. I have been doing it from the age of 6. It really helps me get off the heat. I have never been in relationship and sometimes I get jealous seeing couples kissing and making love in public.There is a maid servant who comes every afternoon to clean our home. Once I was caught pillow humping by her while she was cleaning my apartment.However, lately I like to do it in front of her. At first it was thrilling and frightening if she would object or tell to other family members. A couple of times I was doing in front of her, she was just curious as to what I was doing.Now, I love doing it in front of her that I treat her as she doesnt exist in the room. She doesnt seem to like it that I do it in front of her. But I kind of love the fact that she is doing the sweeping while I am enjoying on the bed over my pillow.Is this bad?
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reader, abcd86 +, writes (27 January 2012):
I am the asker of this and now instead of her, her daughters clean my utensils and do the sweeping.
I do it in front of them in my tight cotton shorts. It gives me pleasure to exploit this situation. I will continue doing this no matter what.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): Dear Pillow Humper-
Creeeeeeeeepy. Seriously. Do you think everyone in her immediate circle doesn't already know about you? When you walk down the street, people are whispering, "That's the pillow humper!" You are probably eventually going to be pulling legs off kittens before moving on to violence against women. Maybe you should be sweeping your own floor, properly dressed, of course. Stop being weird.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2010): Well, you are 24 and still getting off on doing what you did when you were a small child ... 6 years old. What does that tell you?
Secondly, you are perving out on a maid making her watch you be a 6 year old in a 24 year old's body.... and your biggest question is ... whether it is 'wrong'?
Your biggest question should be why you haven't grown sexually ... into being a man. Why you are still jerking off on pillows as you did when you were 6, and why you get off being the 'naughty boy humping pillows' in front of a maid.
Is it wrong to abuse someone sexually by making them watch you when they need the job... need money to support themselves? Hell yeah.
Pay a hooker to watch you jerk off on a pillow. When you run out of money then maybe you'll grow up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2010): she probably thinks your a total freak, thats all i can say. you need to stop.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (19 November 2010):
 I would imagine the maid is very frightened by your strange behaviour. She probably hasn't said anything because she needs the job and thinks no-one would believe her. Many women would find it an unacceptable fetish so I think you need to adjust your behaviour. It may well be the case that your lack of an adult relationship is partly to blame. You need to work on your interpersonal skills if you stand any chance of having a normal relationship with anything but the mattress! By this I mean you should feel ashamed of putting anyone in such a position of embarrassment. You are mis-using your power as an employer over this woman. She may perceive you to be a potentially dangerous sex offender (I would if I was doing your dusting!). If this gets out in your community then you can expect lots of ridicule and much embarrassment for your family. Put the pillows aside and start working on how to talk to women so maybe one day you can get a girlfriend.
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reader, Mjfbla  +, writes (19 November 2010):
 Yes, and she could sue you for indecent exposure.sexual harrasment etc
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2010): Yes, she is probably really freaked out and you even say 'she doesn't seem to like it' if you do it much more you may push her to her limits and she may tell ur family so they tell you off. It is not nice being put into uncomfortable positions, stop it.
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