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writes:a cupple of months ago a really close friend told me he loved me, ive been brourght up with him pritty much all my life and we`re almost like brother and sister and both of our dads are really close too.hes 15 and ive just turned 18, ive had feelings for him but because we are so close i didnt want to say any thing. im quite confused about things at the minuet as im just starting to get over my ex. Ive spoken to my friend about this and he said that he loves me not matter what the sistuation is, my question is... is it so wrong to love some one your so close with? please help
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reader, x~Optimistic_Help~x +, writes (28 September 2008):
No of course it isnt wrong to love someone who you have been brought up with!
I totally understand the situation you are in as i was in the same one a couple of years ago.
I likes my best friend ( who i have known for 14 years now) but didnt say anything, then he told me he liked me. I was nervous becuase he was like a brother to me,
But as a result he is my first love and Id never change that for the world, I stilllove him even now
It didnt work out but we are still the best of friends and I still tell him everything.
Becuase your so close now it will make it easier to stay friends should things not work out the way you expect!
If you care about him as more than a friend/Brother and he feels the same then theres no reason why you shouldnt go for it
Mayeb the years of friendship will be a good base for a solid relationship =]
Good luck =] x
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reader, aprilwind +, writes (28 September 2008):
one question- shouldn't you be close with someone you love/like?
If you are really good friends and he says he loves you and you love him back, then that's cool, isn't it?
April, age 11 (I know I'm young)
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