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anonymous
writes: I feel guilty... i dream about another guy but I have a boyfriend. Is it wrong os cheating to dream about another guy? I know i cant control my dreams but i still feel bad. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, metalinvasion92 +, writes (27 August 2007):
Well technically you can not control your dreams so its not really wrong.....its just awkward.....unless of course you are doing "the nasty" with this dude in your dreams. but even then most of the time its just a random thing.......i have a gf and i dream of different girls all the time.....some i dnt even kno who they r. dont worry about it it will pass
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reader, skye +, writes (27 August 2007):
No, to dream about someone is not wrong nor could it be considered cheating for you have not acted upon it. You have no control over your dreams.
Are you finding yourself day dreaming about this other man? If you are then you might need to reassess your current relationship. If these dreams are at night when you are asleep, then you have nothing to worry about. They are purely fantasy.
Best wishes,
Skye
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reader, Midge +, writes (27 August 2007):
Hell no, its fine! Its fantacy!! Dont panic about it. If you acted on your fantacy, then I would think it was wrong!
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reader, sexi +, writes (27 August 2007):
Hi,it very much normal and ok.I would suggest that you keep it to yourself and not to share it with your bf as he would not be too happy.Dont stress, it fine.Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, kenny +, writes (27 August 2007):
you are not being unfaithful by dreaming about another guy as dreams are based on fantasy.
However if you are dreaming about another guy and you are doing this often are your feelings all there for your current boyfriend?.
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