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writes:I recently broke up with my BF for my EX is that wrong to break up with somebody for another guy??
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reader, Cheerleader4life +, writes (1 August 2009):
Cheerleader4life is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks I tried the coin flip as you suggested and it landed on my ex BF the one i dumped 4 my current BF thanks! ;-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2009): I think that can get confusing for everyone! But again, at least you're being honest, and not seeing them both at the same time.
Does the idea of being with one of them make you feel happier than the other one? Sometimes when I can't decide on something, I imagine someone coming up to me and saying, "You're having THIS one" or "You're doing THIS". If I feel disappointed, I know it's not the one I want. If I feel happy or relieved, I know it's the right choice.
Or, and this might sound terrible, you could toss a coin. Heads for one guy, tails for the other. This is not to make the decision, but rather to help you make the decision. As you toss the coin, you might get a feeling of who you hope it will land on. Or your reactions of how it lands might indicate who you actually prefer.
Again, I know that sounds really bad, but it helps me sometimes when I need to figure out what I really want. Of course, you don't have to follow what the coin says! It's simply a way to get you thinking more of what you want. Simple, but it can be effective. It helps me sometimes, maybe it might help you. x
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reader, Cheerleader4life +, writes (1 August 2009):
Cheerleader4life is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut...what if it's happened 7 times and u can't make up ur mind up between the two guys that u like??
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reader, Cheerleader4life +, writes (31 July 2009):
Cheerleader4life is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks 4 the advice =-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2009): It's not wrong, no. Actually, it's better to break up with someone if you are thinking of being with someone else, rather than see them both at the same time.
I think as long as you are careful and respectful of the feelings of the other people involved, it is okay. x
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