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writes:I'm between relationships and an old girlfriend calls me. This girl I split up in bad terms. She cheated on me behind my back and after I confronted her we broke up. But now she calls me back after a year has passed, she said she's not involved with anyone and wants us to get together to have sex. Should I stay away from her? Would it be all right for us to be together, just for sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007): "Would it be all right for you both to be together, just for sex?" That depends on your values and how you view the act of sex, hun. Some of us save that intimacy just for our beloveds, the people we share our lives with, the ones we love and are deeply bonded to. And other's don't-to them sex is just sex and all emotions/feelings are suspended. Hun, you are both older adults. You do what you want. Just protect yourself with condoms. You don't know what she's been up to or who she's been with this past year, do you. Just one thing to consider before sleeping with her..can you keep your heartfelt feeling and emotions out of this intended sexual liason? If you don't think you can't and if you have any inkling of feelings for her, then don't do it. You know her character and you know her history...you may end up getting burnt again. And if that happens, then really..who's will be to blame for that?
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