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writes: Is it possible to never get over someone? They say time heals and all that, but is it a definite thing that heartbreak will end? Reply to this Question
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reader, Bobbyjo  +, writes (6 June 2006):
 In my oipnion, I dont think you do ever fully get over a heatrbreak. If you have been terribly hurt in the past, by someone you truly loved, then those feelings of pain and bitterness will always be with you but over time they seem to fade. The saying ' time is a great healer' is such a cliche but it is also so true. We feel pain and sadness but we dont 'get over it', we eventually accept it and then learn how to deal with it. We move on and forget the person who broke our hearts, but inside we will always remember the feeling.
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reader, Smiler +, writes (6 June 2006):
 Hey there
hi sweetie... it is true what they say time does in fact heal but only if you give it a gentle hand along the way as other aunts have saaid get rid of all photo's teddybears gifts or cards that person ever sent you i always figured out of sight out of mind with that, try and pre occupy your time so you don't have spare time to think about that person life a full and varied life take up a hobby or go out more with friends and just as advised sweetie time will heal... cause you'll just forget over the course of time
I hope my advice helps you a little.... Good Luck! and remember if you ever need anyone to talk to or just some more advice, i'm always here for you... feel free to email me ok. Would love to hear from you again...
You Take Care Sweetie X
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (6 June 2006):
 Yes,definitely.
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (6 June 2006):
 We are all different when it comes to heartbreak, and we all deal with it in unique ways. It is possible to overcome heartbreak yes, but at the time you really dont think that you will. Everything feels like a struggle and everything you do feels like its linked and makes you feel even more like you are hurting or missing out. You have to focus concentrate on yourself and do things that make you happy, it feels like you cant but you have to make a distraction to get yourself more involved in things and rediscover the real you. Take time to find out things about yourself, and what you really want to achieve. I had a break up after 6 years and he cheated, it took me ages to get over, and i really felt that me had died inside, it did hurt, but you have to get on with it! yeah sounds easy but the wallowing doesnt help you it just prolongs it. Took me a while to get back out on my feet, but i did, thought i never would, felt like i was in this void forever and it hurt like hell!! But I took up some new hobbies and dated a few people, eventually it fades how you were hurt as you enjoy new expereinces. The place I am in now I wouldnt change, and in a funny sort of way the heartbreak i had, was worth it to get to where I am, with a man who totally loves and cares for me, is always there for me and we have so much common, way more than the cheater did, and im very happy, and i am also now very much my own person, and the heartbreak made me get out there and find myself so to speak. Treat it has a new begining to new brighter things that WILL come your way.
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2006): Heartbreak can end, but it can also be aggravated and protracted if you don't want to give it up. Things like keeping all your precious mementos of "you-know-who" out in plain sight, talking incessantly about your break-up, hanging around with him, etc., are all ways to delay getting your life back together. If you really want the heartbreak to end, make sure you're helping yourself in every way possible.
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