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writes: This question is simple yet very complex. I would just like to know if its possibe to still be friends with your ex,whether or not the break up was on good or bad terms? I still love her. Its been 1 1/2 since we've broken up, but we were off and on like we wouldn't have any type of communication for a while. When we come around each other we just seem to be like things never happened between us. When we're on the phone she's quiet as I don't know what. Even if she calls, for the most part, she doesn't hardly say anything. Do you think that we still have a chance to make it through these trying times? How should I approach this situation? I don't just want to come out and spill the beans. Should I or should I wait and see what happens on its own. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2006): Hi
I managed to stay best friends with my ex and boy it was damn hard as i was and in a way still am in love with him. At first i thought we wernt going to make it as friends as whenever we were alone we ended up sleeping together so together we decided it would be best if we only hung around together when other people were with us, going out with together with a gang of mates with us made it far easier. to be honest i only really totally got over 'us' when he got a new girlfriend and i thought it was about time i got a new play mate, it was aqward at first but now 3 year on we are still mates, we don't see as much of each other as we used to but he still comes around, the hardest time of all was when i got married, we decided it would be to hard for both of us if he came to the wedding and i wont be going to his, its not that i want him and vice versa but he's my solemate but we could never live together and there wasn't a future for us as we both had to many different goals in life, he wanted a family and i wanted a career, we will always have something special together and my husband has grown to understand this as has his partner. SO yes it is possible but it's really hard and i think it helps if you were best of friends in the first place.
Wishing you so much good luck, from someone who knows what its like to love someone so much, you still want them in your life even if it means you can't have them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2006): be friends? well if you still love her and you want to be friends with her then you see her dating another guy could you still see her as a friend.
Thats a question you must ask yourself
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