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writes: this is kind of embarassing..but ive been in a long distance relationship and havent had a chance to see my boyfriend for a couple months but we used to cyber and have phone sex quite often but now he seems to have no interest in it and the only time he will is when i bring it up but then i feel like im forcing him ...is this something i should worry about i mean is it possible hes "getting it" from somewhere else or just not interested in me anymore? the time we spend together hasnt really changed other than when we talk it sometimes feels like hes distracted
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reader, shania  +, writes (10 April 2006):
 Long distant relationships can be a strain to some couples.....others can cope with it while some people feel its all or nothing.I think in the beginning,cyber sex and phone sex was probably exciting at 1st but i dare say the novelty has worn off.Its possible,that he might be having another relationship with someone else but without you two sitting down and having a heart to heart talk,you wont ever know.Have you asked him whether he is happy with you? Does he want a break?.....you will only know once you have spoken to him,otherwise,your going round in circles.Good luck.
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reader, Clarey +, writes (10 April 2006):
 Why don't you just ask him if he is alright and how he is feeling. He could have any number of things on his mind, including another girl, but not necessarily. Lay off the cyber sex until he asks you, you never know he might miss it. It seems a shame to base your judgement primarily on that. You are obviously picking something up so have courage and find out what it is. No evading the question will help. There is no point in being with someone who doesn't be with you and no point either in making assumptions without facts. Everything could be just fine so find out.
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