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writes: My man says he has never thought of cheating on me. He has many attractive female friends and I sometimes wonder if this is temptation for him. I am pretty confident he won't pursue anything more than a frienship with these women (because he respects me enough), but is he telling me the truth when he says he has no sexual urges to fight whatsoever? I wonder how he can be so close with some of these nice and beautiful ladies, and not feel attracted to anyone but me.Then again, if he did feel attracted to his sexy female friends, would he tell me?what do you think is really going on inside his head? How does it work for men in serious relationships when it comes to attractive female friends/strangers?(I rarely feel attracted to other men, but occassionally I do feel 'turned on' by others. I will effortlessly look when an attractive man walks by, but I also could never cheat and I don't like to flirt or even have close male friends. I might think about these men in the moment and then forget about them 10 seconds later. I told my bf this and he was hurt!! At least I'm honest? I want him to be too.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2008): well i dont know about everyone else but my girl can turn me on in a second and no other women can do it at all, i dont have any feeling towards any other girls what so ever and i dont even have sexual thoughts about them either, i dont know if this goes tp far into it but i could sit and watch porn all day and not feel a thing, but the second my gf does something im ready to go, and im not to sure i get it myself but thts the way it is for me
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008): I went out with a girl for two years who was younger than me and a virgin.
We never had sex but I never considered cheating on her. I still found all kinds of women attractive and still fantasized about different women though.
The difference was that in the real world I was in love with my girlfriend and unwilling to give that up for passing moment of sexual excitement.
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