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Is it OK to love my first cousin? He's told me he feels the same about me.

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Question - (11 March 2013) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 March 2013)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

So I love my first cousin, we met five years ago and i fell in love with him but it wasn't on purpose.

We first met at my house when they moved over here. We always talked, played video games, and we each helped each other out.

I started to notice that i started to liked him and i never really saw him as family more like a friend. I though it would just go away like how it did with every guy but I ended up to like him more and i couldn't let go even if i wanted to.

I always got jealous when i see him with other girls and try to take him away. I felt so greedy like i only wanted him.

He made me feel so happy and if i was down he made me smile. I told him after three years because i couldn't take it anymore because he always tried to ignore me.

I finally told him about how i felt and discovered that he loved me the same way i did.

Since then we have been going out and i know the consequences of what could happen to our children and the family. But, i don't know if its okay to love my first cousin.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (12 March 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntit's not normally acceptable but in some states it's legal

http://www.ncsl.org/issues-research/human-services/state-laws-regarding-marriages-between-first-cousi.aspx

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