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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I know that satisfying ones self is completely natural, but I have the urge to do it almost all the time. Is that normall? The urge wil just come on suddenly for no appearant reason. I get this constant tingeling feeling in my vagina and it won't go away until I satisfy the feeling of climax. I do it at home before I go to bed almost every night, even if my husband and I have intercourse, which I love but I've always had a hard time climaxing with a partner. As a matter of fact, I prefer doing it myself, is that normal? I'll do it at work in the bathroom sometimes 1-2 times a day. I do admit that it has become more frequent within the past 2 years or so, but the feeling just seems to keep getting stronger with time and it won't let up until I climax. I guess my question is: Is it normal to do it that much or is it more of an obsession? Thanks!
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reader, Dr. Mark  +, writes (13 April 2007):
I don't know if it's "normal" or not. What's normal? If you are not letting it get in the way of your productivity at work, then I don't see a problem with it.
There's nothing wrong with having a difficult time climaxing with a partner. I had a girlfriend who enjoyed sex very much, but claimed that no one had ever been able to give her an orgasm. After making love to her for a couple of hours, she would be ready to stimulate herself, while I enjoyed watching.
Sex is meant to be fun, and there is no "right" or "wrong" way.
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