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writes:Hello (first of all , sorry for my poor english)So, this will be a little bit of talk about ... the so called "internet" love. (shes from Germany, im from Spain)Im a 18 year old dude and at this time i broke with my current GF for 5 daysI met this girl on a forum, she was really awesome girl, funny and all. We started chating over the internet, talking on webcam .. it was really cool. after a couple of days, she starts opening alot to me, telling me her problems. This whoever.. made me feel something i havent felt in a long time.. i was in loev with her. The way she smiled after reading my responseses to suport her, it really touched my heart. At this time, it was just a internet friendship.Then an oportunity came.. i could meet her in real life, at a festival. She even told me i could stay at her tent.(Note: at this time, we talked for so long, traded so many complements with eachother, she even said she liked me)I was really exited about it.When i arrived from the train we finally meet, it was al good at that time, met her parends and all, it was awesome. At the festival, i met some of her friends aswell. We talked, got to know us a little beter, all looked good for me.She was always with a friend of hers, and i got the ideia that she really liked him. Until the night arrive.. she invited a friend of hers ( a guy) to sleep in the tent as well.. it was a large tent with 2 rooms.. and the guy sleeped in the same room as her.. i was confused by this and decided to ask the next morning.The morning arrived.. and i asked her.. hmm hey, you really like that dude dont you? .. she looks at me with this .. wierd face.. and says.. no, hes just a friend, i dont care..after thsi moment, the rest of the festival, she ignnored me completly... didnt even smile or talk.. it was like she didnt even know me.after all this, i felt horrible, and sad.. what did i do wrong? wtf did i do?..as soon i arrived to spain, i went to my MSN, and asked.. whats wrong..you dont even talk to me anymore, you ignored me, pushed me away..then she says: "You asked me that question, about the other guy, it really made me angry.."tahts all she said... its almost 3 weeks after this festival happened.. and still i try to make her atleast talk to me.. and be friends.. but she "hates" me...what i want to know if.. its my fault? or is she overreacting.. cuz im really "screwd" in my head bcuz of this.. im miserable ever since..
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reader, Berserker +, writes (17 July 2011):
Berserker is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah.. i hope when she arrives day 4 August from holidays, ill be able to talk to her and get to the botom of this,
really apreciate all the advices , thanks alot, it really helped me..
Indeed.. 3 weeks after the festival.. i still find myself thinking about it.. "what did i do?" "why didnt she said to me in the moment she dident like that question".. damn :S
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reader, Baffledd  +, writes (17 July 2011):
 Buddy what you need to understand about women or girls is that they are confused A LOT. They react emotionally and not rationally.No can say for sure why she reacted in the way that she did, but it's done now. And if she won't explain anything to you then it's best to move on.Otherwise your going to be as confused as her and go crazy with all the what if thoughts. Asking yourself questions you can't answer.Give her once more chance. Try and get to the bottom of what upset her that night. If she's not willing to open up then this girl isn't the one for you.Having a bond doesn't mean anything. If I had a penny for all the women I had 'a special bond' with then I'd be a very rich young man.Good luck
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reader, VSAddict  +, writes (17 July 2011):
 Move on. She's overreacting too much. You had a right to know what was going on and she wasn't/isn't mature enough to tell the truth, so move on.
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reader, Pretty2K12Lady +, writes (17 July 2011):
 well its either she really liked you and was insulted you asked that question or else she just got problems....i really cant explain cause you dont know what her reason is...maybe you should take a different approach like...saying that you sorry you asked but personally i think this is a interpersonal problem cause she didnt even tell you why she stopped talking to you...maybe dat dude did something to her that night...maybe she hiding something...nobody know for sure...not even you yet....im replying late so you might know...but ummm....stop trying and see what she says if da above method doesnt work..im confused myself...i really wanna know what happens...good luck fellow...
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reader, Berserker +, writes (17 July 2011):
Berserker is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes i meet this person, he was prety cool, and no, it wasn't her boyfriend. she just offered him a room, but what confuses me.. is if she "liked" me, why would she sleep with him instead of me.. we had such a good bond, and after that little question, she even said she dont like talking to me anymore.. this is really confusing for me, since i never had experienced a situation like this
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2011): It sounds like you found out she was sleeping with a guy that was her other boyfriend and then she tried to turn it on you in fear of her other boyfriend finding out. Did you meet this friend? Why didn't she tell you that she was going to sleep with him? It doesn't make sense that she's your girlfriennd and doesn't tell you this. A Real girlfriend wouldn't expect you to be okay about that unless that friend is clearly gay but even that is a hard acception. Forget her and move on
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