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*corpio1112
writes:Is it me, or are women a little crazy?I went on a date on Sunday. Blind date, we spoke on the phone before the date. We had what I thought was a great date with unmistakable chemistry. No awkward moments, flirting, comfortable, and even talked about what to do on our second date. Stayed out for about 4 hours. We kissed a little bit at the end of the night and made plans to get together.We spoke briefly a couple days later. Then I left her a message about getting together. She sends me an email telling me it was a great date and what a great vibe she got from me, but... she didn't feel butterflies in her stomach when we kissed and didn't want to go out again.Again I ask, what is wrong with women? Can you have great chemistry for an entire date only to lose it with a single kiss? I didn't feel anything amazing with our kiss either, but thought we got along so well that it was worth going out again.If anyone asks me how a date went, I will truly never really know... ask my date!
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reader, Scorpio1112 +, writes (4 March 2010):
Scorpio1112 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks anonymous female reader... your answer does make sense, but it's still a little frustrating when you're out with someone for 4 hours and body language, conversation, etc... indicates she's attracted to you, only to have it all go away with the expectations of how a first kiss should make you feel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2010): Women are always worrying about hurting other's feelings (at least good women are). She was trying to let you down without hurting your feelings. She felt no sexual chemistry with you and that blew your chances with her.
Unfortunately, many women base their search for a man on sexual chemistry. This does not usually work out in their favor. They neglect and overlook things because they mistakenly believe their love can fix the man once they have him in their clutches.
You are better off without her, find a woman that is more emotionally mature.
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reader, Scorpio1112 +, writes (3 March 2010):
Scorpio1112 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI agree, women like to imagine what what you should be like, and then when you're not... they do think way too much
And I also agree that they can also be very fickle..
Bottom line is they might not be crazy, but they are a very strange breed indeed...
By the way, I don't need advice on my kissing technique, thank you very much...
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2010): Nah...women aren't crazy - they can just lose the flare very quickly, if you get what I mean. I know lots of women who find a guy attractive, but as soon as he makes a move on her they find him grose (not that that's your case though). I guess it's a sort of...respect issue. Sometimes they realise that they've been imagining too much what you are like, and the real you isn't who they thought you were - that always is a big downer, and it's not even the guys fault! Women like to think about who they like - a lot. Too much really.
So sometimes you just got to think - "SHE made a mistake, she probably likes you but not in that way." :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2010): She's not into you who knows maybe she just wanted to meet other people but don't give up you'll find a chick. Heres a little tip though before you finish kissin her bite her bottom lip gently massage it with your tongue it's such a turn on hold her by her hips tease her while you kiss but don't go to far. :D
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