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writes:Do you think it's disrespectful if my boyfriend always talks about how hot a girl is? It could be an actress on tv or in the movies, or just some girl walking down the street in front of us. I don't like when he does this. Yes part of it is jealousy, but I also think it's a little disrespectful. I can't also help but think that when he does this in front of my friends, it looks bad, especially when it's just a stranger walking down the street. Would it be wrong of me to tell him to stop or would I be unreasonable?
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reader, Aradeah  +, writes (26 March 2011):
Yes it is disrespectful but a hell of a lot of men do it. One cure my dear do it back. Next time you see a cute guy say cooooorrrrr look at the buns on that. Make sure you ogle a handsome man much better looking than the other half, and when a good looking man comes on tv stare and whistle, talk your boyfriends language trust me he won`t like it it will offend his ego and he will stop his own oggling or you may have some funny discussions sharing what is so great about the eye candy...be more open. Have fun with it...
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (26 March 2011):
 Have you tried to put the shoe on the other foot? Comment on hot guys. MAN that guy had an ASS on him! Wow, now THAT is a hottie!..
Personally, if my husband thinks an atress is hot, *shrug* he is usually right. It wouldn't bother me. But he DOES have the decency to not OGGLE random women or comment on their looks. I would find THAT disrespectful.
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