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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Ben and I met in kindergarten and have been pretty much inseperable ever since! When we both grew into puberty, everyone around us thought (and still think) there's something going on between us, but I don't really know what that could be. Sure, I find my best friend cute and he's really smart and funny and he makes me feel amazing even when I can not smile for the life of me and he's told me I'm the same way for him and that I'm beautiful. We're both 17 and the annual Halloween party at our neighborhood's association building is being held next Friday. We were thinking of going with each other since we're both single and it would be just as friends.But what if something more happens? Should we risk our 13-year friendship? What if we go to different colleges and never see each other again? Ben means more to me than any other guy I've ever been with (I've had seven boyfriends). And sometimes I really feel like he's the one, but we're so young! And what if we don't split? What if I marry him and have kids with him? What will my life be like?I don't know what to think anymore! Is he "the one" for me? I think I have real feelings for him and I think he has them for me, too, but I guess I need confirmation...
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): You're 17........ and you are thinking he could be THE ONE. LOL. Grow up, live life... then rethink it all.
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