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writes:Female 30sI've recently met someone that I think is interested in me, but a little unsure. He's doing some work for my nextdoor neighbour but I've noticed him always glancing across at me and smiling when I'm around and he's helped me a couple of times with moving furniture. I've caught him staring at me a few times through the window as well. He's not approached me to show interest but we haven't had a situation where it's been the two of us so not sure if he's shy or scared of rejection or even maybe with someone already. Do I take the risk and approach him or do I wait and see if he makes a move?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2023): He could be a stalker. Be smart and careful if you do reach out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2023): OP of question
I think the work has finished so not sure I'll see him again. One of his colleagues did say they aren't sure if he is seeing someone but that he's on social media. Should I reach out via there and chance it? Personally don't think I'm looking to date seriously but he's the first guy I've had that feeling for in over a year. Part of me feels like I'll always think 'what if' if I don't take a risk and see
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (3 August 2023):
 Or he has a partner already?
" Do I take the risk and approach him or do I wait and see if he makes a move?"
If you are ok with potentially being rejected, then go for it.
Glancing at you and smiling doesn't mean he is single or that he wants to date you. He might just find you attractive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2023): It's difficult to say.
But I'd show that I am interessted without making the first move, because that might scare him off.
However, at your age, acting like that might suggest that he's otherwise engaged, but that he just likes you. So try to find out before you do anything.
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