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writes:There is this guy, lets say his name is john. This started the first day I moved to town he when I met him. He asked me a whole bunch of questions and told me fake stories to make him self seem really cool. He flirts with almost every girl in the school but everyone thinks that he actually likes me and that he's not playing games. I don't know what to think sometimes he acts like he does but other times he ignores me. I really need some advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI like john and i cant if he likes me. It's really confusing. Oh and the stories are about him and the crazy things he has done and I could tell he was joking around with me. I think that letting the relationship build over time is the best solution. Thanks for the advice everyone!
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reader, Atsweet1 +, writes (7 August 2012):
 He likes you so don't think he is a flirt or player we all lie not that its right ask him what's up with you and him Once I liked a person they would be near and I wanted her to see Im sociable not flirty but it may seem like flirting its not
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reader, Just Gill  +, writes (6 August 2012):
 You need to find out what your true feeling are for John. Reading your statement you have caught him out on lies, but have you said to him about these lies? communication is the key in ALL relationships, you really need to ask him. Dont have a bad attitude towards it but ask him why he's doing these things and why you think that way. If he does like you you'll find out. But i would be asking him why he ignores you sometimes and why he has lied to you. When it comes to flirting with other girl's, miby thats his personality...miby this give's him confidence. Dont just assume when a guy flirts with other girl's he's not intrested in you anymore, or he's a 'cheat'. You may find that he's flirting with other girl's to get a response from you. He possibly wants to see your reaction? Playing game's might be his 'thing' and gets pleasure out of seeing you upset, you wont know until you ask him.
Before taking any action you need to figure out what your looking for, is it john your wanting or a boyfriend? If the answer is John then go over what you like about him, then you can ask him about his actions. If he give's you the right answer's then you'll know what to do. As for trusting him, trust builds over time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2012): He sounds like an ego maniac.
Everything people like that do is to boost their own ego and make themselves look good to other people.
I believe he's just showing off in front of you and everybody else.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy +, writes (6 August 2012):
 What were the lies/ fake stories?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (6 August 2012):
 Honestly, one thing is making himself look good, but that only works for people who either don't get caught lying or those who do not lie.
From the little you have written about him, I would stay clear.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2012): The best advice I can give, as I guy who's honest, is that most guys will say nearly anything , truth or lie, to a girl they find attractive. Honesty, don't getto involved with him, no more than friends until he can decide that he actually likes you. You also need to see that even if you think he's hot, that is no reason to Bother with him. So many people these days just go out with somebody just because they get a little attention, or they think someone might be good in bed. Make yourself a priority, if he really does like you he will show you.
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reader, SensitiveBloke +, writes (6 August 2012):
 If the guy's told you lies, you should not think about becoming his girlfriend. How would you be able to trust him?
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