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writes:I have my first boyfriend! I graduated early, but when I went to school there was this guy on the varsity football team and he was a senior. I never knew who he was, but He came to one of my friends' parties last week and said he knew me from school and how he liked me. Which shocked me because I've never fit into the popular category....AT ALL... But apparently he really likes me, he has taken me on dates and met my parents. And now we are dating. I am just hesitant because I still dont know why he likes me sooo much, i was thinking its because I am a virgin? Im not trying to sound rude about the whole thing, but this is my first relationship and this all just feels so new and weird. I really have no idea how to be a girlfriend. How do I keep this amazing guy while getting rid of these stupid thoughts and insecurities? Reply to this Question
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reader, UK  +, writes (28 January 2009):
Does this guy even know your a virgin? By the sounds of it he doesn't so surely that can't be the reason he likes you so much. To me he seems pretty genuine, I mean if he's bothered to meet your parents and hasn't just rushed into trying to have sex with you then I think he honestly does just like you, so don't put yourself down, is it really so hard to believe that he could just like you for you? Don't worry, I remember my first relationship and I think everyone feels a bit weird to begin with, but it wears off after a while. Just keep being yourself and I don't think you'll have any trouble keeping this guy, there's no reason to feel insecure, you already know he likes you a lot.Hope this helps a bit.C.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009): hi, i feel i was in the same situation as you excpet it was a new boy at skl, and i had boyfriends before not proper i got seein this lad, and he dne the same.. taken me on dates met each others parents. but he tried me on, but i pushed him off n sed i wernt readdy, after that he split up with me. i felt a bit sickkk really but i new boys where all the same. you should just think of things like spending time with him, lettin him mix with his mates and you with yours. and wait till your both ready too do something. but don't be affrraid to push him off. x x
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