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writes:My ex and I were dating for about a month and made it offical as boyfriend and girlfriend for 3 weeks. I wouldn't have sex with him yet since I thought it was too soon. So he opted to just completely ignore me and he left me for another girl. (who's obviously giving him what he wants)Anyways one of his friends came up to me about 3 weeks after that happened wondering what happened. My ex just stopped bringing me up, so it was like I didn't even exist. His friend was really sweet and knew why he left me since that was apparently all he wanted from me to begin with. We exchanged numbers and invited me to hangout with his friends if they got together. So a few days ago I ran into him again and we talked for probably like 10 minutes and he told me his days off and wanted to see a movie with me. Him and I also texted for quite a while as well. Is he interested?He's a really nice guy, and he already knows how I am with the whole sex thing so it's deff not to get into my pants since I am NOT one of those girls and I never will be. Thanks!
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reader, Serpico +, writes (20 December 2012):
If a guy really likes you, he will wait. As a matter of fact, it will make him like you even more. If he doesn't, he'll be gone like a flash, and on to the next target.Kudos to you for waiting. I know a lot of guys who'd love a girl like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah I dated a guy after the ex and he was the exact same way. I'm not putting out until there is a true connection. Anyone can become your bf just to say it, sleep with you and leave. I'm a virgin so its kind of a big deal. I don't want to give it someone who's just going to leave me after. :)
there are obviously more details to this guy but I wanted it to get answered so I kept it short
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (17 December 2012):
 I would go out to the movies with him, just stick to your guns though, sweet guy or not.
Do what feels right for you.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (17 December 2012):
 Sure, he wants to go and see a movie with you.....
BUT, he's likely also banking on it that, if he plays his cards right, he CAN get you to put out....
Take the date.... and see what develops. We guys have an uncanny ability to "tip our hand" early-on... and a perceptive woman will "see through" us with nary a whisper.
Good luck....
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2012): Keep you goodies in a jar as long as you feel you need to. Have sex only when you feel it's time. Do what's good for you, not someones else.
Also don't look down on women who choose a different approach. This is their battle, and in this society they are free to do what they want.
Your guys seems interested, but he is going to try sex part, I m pretty sure.
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reader, Atsweet1 +, writes (16 December 2012):
 He think he can since the other guy didn't. If you want to know keep dating him you will find out if ... Plus most people want love making duh thats why there is physical attraction in the first place and if you want to keep your goodies in a jar. Go right ahead lol like you mention people will move on to people who are willing and are those kund of girls lmao.
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