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writes:i met a guy we are in the same grad school program together and because of this we see each other everyday. We started getting close and becoming really good friends and one night we had sex. Since then we have had sex a few times. I really like him but he says he doesnt want anything serious yet claims to care for me. When wer are alone he is so sweet which really makes me think he is falling for me. What do you think i should do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008): Accept that this guy cares about you, and is your friend. You are also having sex. He doesn't want you as a girlfriend, he's not in love with you, and sex is not a sign of commitment. You are just two good friends who have sex sometimes. He doesn't mean to hurt you, he's being very truthful when he says he wants nothing more. If you stop having sex with him, he'll still be your friend, but sex doesn't make a man fall in love with you. When he meets somebody else and falls in love, then he will stop having sex with you, and he probably won't have time to spend with you anymore. If you are falling for this guy, I suggest you stop having sex with him, because you will get hurt. There is no romantic relationship between you two, he's not committed and owes you nothing but friends. Stop sleeping with him and go back to being just good friends.
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