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Is going on holiday with him so soon after meeting a good idea?

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Question - (21 June 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 June 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

i have met a nice guy a few weeks ago and we talked about going away..i am in travel and have the contacts so i booked and arranged everything.he said that he would book and arrange the next holiday.

when i mentioned this to my mum she started moaning about how i shouldnt have booked the holiday and he was getting a good deal etc etc...its totally made me feel really annoyed now-is she right-is he using me? we dont know each other very well and in previous relationships going on holiday so soon after meeting someone has not worked out.

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (22 June 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntI agree with deejuliet this guy may be using you. Not only to get a good deal on a holiday but for other things. Do you know enough about this guy to go away with him? I don't think so. I think you should put off going away with this guy until you know him better as you may be putting yourself in to a VERY vulnerable position!

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A female reader, deejuliet United States +, writes (22 June 2007):

deejuliet agony auntWithout knowing this young man, my first guess would be yes, he is taking advantage of you. You are in travel so he can get a very good deal. Who is paying? Are you splitting the costs? Is he paying? Are you? I am very wary of this situation.

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