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writes: I have a big problem. I am majorly in love... with my teacher. I know, I know, you all think it's 'just a crush' but it honestly isn't. I've never felt this way towards someone before. He has told me on four occasions that he loves me. He ALWAYS flirts with me. Sometimes in class, I look up in class to find he's staring at me/my legs/my breasts. I try not to notice, but we almost always find our eyes meeting each other, but he suddenly looks away, looking red and embarrassed. He has called me around his house before... where we shared a kiss. A little peck, on the lips, but still... a kiss. He makes me feel over the moon. He said we can be together when I graduate, it is in a few months, I know, not very long, but it feels it. I just want us to be together NOW. He's so gorgeous, he's absolutely perfect. I'm not sure whether he'll wait or not though... HELP.
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reader, xsarabethx +, writes (16 April 2010):
This is maybe the first love thing. Sadly you fell for someone older and perhaps "out of bounds". Just don't get to carried away. He maybe just after sex with a younger person, you never know. He should know better then to be involved with a student... If anyone found out about this, it could mean serious drama for both of you. While still in school, don't do anything with him. Tell him you like him but you're waiting until your sure of everything.
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (16 April 2010):
What I am seeing here is sexual tension. If you've never had a relationship with him it's inappropriate for him to say he loves you. When he's not a professor and wearing jeans and sneakers he's just like any other ordinary, horny guy. Get to know him better to make sure his intention is not just sex. I had felt so crazy about someone before. I couldn't sleep, eat and I dropped a few pounds. Absolutely nothing happened between us because he was just flirting and wasn't looking for a serious relationship and I caught his bluff. I am not saying your teacher is lying (he could be a great person) but a relationship is not based on the magical feeling, lust (on his side mostly), and does not start before you know each other well, not just bra size and dick size.
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