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writes:Im an egyption guy single and looking for love. I had a chat with a romanian girl she is really a great girl after 2 days, i found my self in love with her but there is some things makes me cant go to romania and she do the same i dont know what can i do she is great and i think i cant live with out her touch and in the same time she is far i dont know how can i find a way to be with her and find her between my arms i have a life here work and family and some things like that and she have the same in romania please dearcupid, tell me what can i do Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2007): Hello Egypt. My advice is that you start by admitting to yourself you're not actually in love with her after only 2 days, especially when the host of the meeting was our dearly Internet. You can't go beyond words here and get confirmations in people's reactions, Internet as I said tends to be self-deceiving and deceitful, you're not Joe Fox and she's not Girl-around-the-corner, if you know the movie. Net helps many camouflage themselves, there was a famous .jpg ironically pointing out the differences between 'to be' and 'want to be's. Continue your talks with her, to know her better. If you afford it, as time goes by, you can visit simply for the sake of the jounrney, it's so risky to expect too much from insecure situations. Maybe you've had the luck to meet trustworthy persons, but it's not the only kind there is. However you look at it, it is immature of you to say you love her in 2 days. Love implies knowledge, and you have no idea who she is. Does it have to do with your culture perhaps, that people are easy to know? In reality they're surely not, even in years of time... What you can do is concentrate on the "near", not the "far", not the "unreachable", not the "helicopterable." Really now, there must be someone in your town/country, but you're too busy to see because of the Internet. As someone said, our vision is not almighty. When we chose to see certain things we don't see others... Good luck there
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