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writes: I am 18 years old and am in love with my ex boyfriend and i want to spend the rest of my life with him.But he is in a relationship with someone else and i dont know what to do to get him back. Ive tried to move on and ive try to be with other people but i just cant bring myself to do it! I really need your help because i need help. thankyou
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2006): Im in the same situation as you im also 18 and miss my ex so much.I have just started a new relationship but cant get close to him because of my ex, but I dont want to hurt the boy im with now but i feel im gonna ahve to but my ex has a new g/f now to it its hurting so much knowing that, n its making me ill so im gbonna have to sort this out soon because i know how u feel n u wont be able to get over it bcus i cnt
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2006): You have to give him space and let him get on with whatever hes doing. He will not apprecieate you pestering him and neither would his gf. I know its hard, trust me Im going through the same thing myself, but you cant sit around wasting your life waiting for him. Give yourself time to heal and try to avoid him at all costs, fill up your days with things you love doing just to take your mind off him. And the next time someone asks you out on a date - go! You have nothing to lose and the next guy you meet could end up being the one who will make you really happy.
If you cant cut all ties with your ex, just let him know that your there for him as a friend when things go wrong. He will respect you alot more if you do this, rather than beg for him back.
I hope everyting goes okay for you x
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reader, bonym  +, writes (25 April 2006):
 Dear Anon, if your ex is with someone else then you are going to have to leave the situation as it is. I know its hard,I know exactly how you feel, you want to be with that special person and knowing that they are with someone else tears you apart. I would suggest that you see how things go with his current partner, he may even feel the same about you, but dont go charging in there and tell him how you feel. Think of his girlfriend, she wont be too happy about that will she! Instead, try and be gentle about it. Even if you just explained to him how you feel, but dont put any pressure on him, if he feels the same , then sure enough you will be together, if he doesnt, then at least you have some closure. If you cant be with other people, give yourself some space and try not to be involved with anyone else until you assess what is happening with his current partner. xXx
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