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*ricka
writes:i had a crush on my cousin since i was a child..until he told me he loved me..we had sex two days after he told me how he felt.i really ,really love him.but i also have a boyfrend..nd besides both our families will not approve if we decide to marry.these days he doesnt col me coz we are distanced...becue i havent told him wur we really stand.i want him all for ma self but then i have someone else in my life.but i love him mo than i love my boy frend.im jus confused nd dont know wat to do.i love him nd he says he loves me.
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (24 May 2011):
 Hi
BEING COUSINS WILL MAKE THIS VERY DIFFICULT
and as you say your family will not approve. You already have a boyfreind, and this is totally unfair you cheating on him. If you have these feelings for your cousin, then you should break up with your boyfreind. in the mean time I would seriously concider talking to a family member about this, because if this comes out in the open there could be many people getting hurt from this.
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reader, nokutenda +, writes (24 May 2011):
I think you should forget about your cousin because even if you both love each other you can never be together, accept it. You said he is not calling because of distance-there are two reasons for this: either he doesn't love u that much,a guy who really loves you will find a way to talk to you or mayb he does love u for real but knows you cant be together and is trying to distance himself from you. Concentrate on your boyfrend-or break up with him if you know u can never love him as he deserves and find someone new
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reader, Hugh.J +, writes (24 May 2011):
 I know that this is not an English exam, but surely some attempt at spelling, grammar and punctuation would be helpful?
To be that illiterate at age 22-25, as stated, speaks volumes about your education.
To answer your question; it's unfair on your boyfriend to pursue the relationship with your cousin.
Dump one or other of them.
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