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writes:i have a major problem. Or maybe i just think i do. Ive been with my boyfriend Lance for almost 3 years now. the thing is, Lance is all the way studying in uni in London while im studying in Australia. We have been doing the long distance for a while now but its very difficult. I love him very much but lately, i met this new guy Eric. I only hung out with him for a few hours with a couple of friends, but i thought that he was incredibly attractive and funny and now i cant stop thinking about him. Is this something i should be worried about or will it go away within the next few days?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2009): I wouldnt risk it, you are potentioly risking loosing the love of your life, your b/f!! This other guy will only give you temporary happyness and butterflys etc. After a few months with hanging with him you will prob get bored of him and realise that your long distance love is the one for you, if you dont already realise that! Only difference is you may loose him and never get him back again if you decide to persue the "closer guy" . tread carefully... goodluck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2009): hi, i can completely understand where you are coming from and how you are feeling as i am also in a long distance relationship. it is hard but seeing as you have been together almost 3 years it sounds pretty ok. as for the other guy i think you may be 'having feelings' for him as your boyfriend is so far away and you miss him. this new friend you have made is easily available and around that is what is making it harder for you. i think you should talk to your boyfriend and tell him you miss him etc. this other guy seems fine as a friend but it would be too risky to do anything else at the moment.
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