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writes:Im a 17 yr old guy in high school, i feel like im ready to start having sex. I've already experimented with all that kind of foreplay stuff, but i havent went all the way. i want to make sure that i live up to my first girls expectations...what should i do to get ready. im pretty fit right now but im willing to do anything to make it as good as possible for her, please help me out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2008): I agree with lady davinci, but don't expect you to cum the first time. It might take several times particularly if your not relaxed. I suggest you talk about it before you do it i.e. ask her what she likes, tell her if she wants to do it first.
Tell her that you are slightly nervous about it and that your unexperienced. It might be best if she takes the lead for the first two times. That way you can relax, find out what she likes and you don't have a ton of pressure on you.
Just experiment.
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reader, lady davinci +, writes (7 August 2008):
well don't get with girls that are too experienced or you feel will not be understanding. I have had two boyfriends who were virgins when we first had sex so I can give you and idea of what worked.(Keep in mind I hadn't exactly been with many guys before them so I wasn't as experienced either, which was ok because I didn't feel like I had to live up to some great expectation). Anyway, be confident, and do what you feel. If you want the girl to know you think she's the most sexiest thing you ever laid eyes on, look her in her face and tell her (that'll get the juices flowing. Sex is a physical and mental thing and the experience will be the most enjoyable if you know you're with someone who's equally dying to make love with you. Talk to her, ask her what she wants. Communication is key. If you don't want your woman to feel like a piece of meat talk to her establish a vibe. Hell play around with her body to see what she responds to. Don't seem too eager to have intercourse. Keep in mind every woman is different. There's nothing sexier than a guy telling a female he wants to learn how to please her. Let her know that and she'll help you out.Please remember to use protection and most importantly MAKE SURE SHE IS WET BEFORE YOU PUT IT IN. This may take a little while but if you end up with a female who wants you just as bad as you want her, your touch will be enough to drive her crazy. Basically follow your instincts, don't freak out and be careful who you choose!!!
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