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writes: Hello. I'm in jr heigh, and am the only boy in my class who hasn't had a girlfreind. I'm very picky on who I will date, and have turned down many requests. I'd be fine with it, except I'm starting to be made fun of. I don't want to date anyone who I don't really want to date, so what should I do? Thanks for your help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2008): If you feel that you dont want to date the girls that have brought themselves to you because there is no attraction, you cant help that. Most boys around your age arent really into girls yet anyways, and if they are it is more so for the whole labeling of boyfriend/girlfriend.
Dont worry, your time will come, and right now you might think that your pickey but I think that it is moreso because your not ready. Agreeing with Maxine, realtionships now, at your age, isnt necessary. You have the rest of your life to spend finding that special woman that will be who you want, but until then ignore the people that make fun of you. People make fun of other people because of their own insecurities. I have a younger sister thats 13, and most times girls will be more into the whole relationship thing before boys will, but she is just having fun, being young enjoying it while she can, and she has yet to have a boyfriend, not because shes "gay" or whatever else young children come up with, but because she is just here being 13, and doing what she wants to do.
So like I said ignore the other people, worry about yourself, your not ready, and you cant help that. It all takes time and when your time comes, you will know, and you can prove to all the other people that were making fun of you wrong!
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reader, Maxine17  +, writes (8 January 2008):
 You do not need to date someone you do not want to date. It is your choice you aren't picky. You are still young. Concentrate on school have fun and enjoy your life! Trust me relationships are trouble. They take your mind off of school work and when u and your loved one fight it is really tough but those are just "speed bumps". You will still find a girl that u are really interested in and you will then be happy. Don't let people tell you what to do. I have many friends who are between the ages of 15 - 17 who are still single and have never dated. Not because of their parents but because they are just like you. They are happy and they don't care what people say about them!
If u need anymore advice you know where to find me. I'm ready to help whenever you needme to.
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