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writes:im losing my mind at the moment i fallen for this guy that im dating but there a few problems he has a gf that he claims he gonna dump for me he has a ex that he see more than me and there rumours they are still seeing each otherhe hardly has time to see me as his gf mum is controling over himi get paranoid all the time about him im thinking of taking a break with him to sort my head out but im scared i will lose him for good that i dont want
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2006): You are looking to us for an answer when it is starring you in the face!!! DUMP HIM!!! You shouldn't go out with someone who already has a gf for a start. It' s wonder he has any energy left with all these women in his life. Just get rid! He is a serial womaniser and it will get worse!!! Go and get yourself a nice FREE bf of your own.
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reader, scorpiomac4 +, writes (4 December 2006):
I totally agree with lostwithoutyou62. This guy isn't worth your time and energy, never get with a man who already has a gf, he's just having his cake and eating it! The bit about his ex gf and the mum.. WHAT? He knows he can have you because as you've said you don't want to lose him, you obviously know somethings not right because you're considering taking a break. Just do it, a guy like this is a player. He won't treat you right and he's already proven to you he's a cheater. You deserve beter, get out of this relationship and stay out... find a real man! Good luck..
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2006): This man literally doesn't have any spare time for you, what with these two other women!
You do well to feel paranoid. Yes, take a break from him -
and then make it permanent - UNLESS during the time you are "on break" he definitely, once and for all completely stops seeing or contacting the other two. If he SAYS he wants to see you and will stop seeing them "sometime soon" or some other kinda nonsense - why then, you leave so fast he won't see you for dust!
You deserve to have a guy who is clear that he wants to be with YOU, and will treat you with respect and consideration.
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