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41-50,
*martj
writes:i am a woman of 35years old,married for 6 years now but i feel like quitting this marriage because my husband atitude is driving me crazy.he dosnt care about me.when i was pregnant of my last baby,for complete 6months,he do not care to ask me how we[baby and i]are doing.he dosnt care to drop money for me as if the baby is not his.when i put to bed,he do not buy anything for me.when i ask him for money, he will not give me and he knows i dont have.i called him one day and ask him to forgive me if i have offended him that i do not like the way our family is.he ended up telling me to quit if am not happy.i went to a rev.father,he said i should be praying for him that God wil make him change.we dont sleep in the same room for one and half year now.no sex.i wanted to quit the marriage but my 3 kids are my concern.i want my children to b pround of me.but am not happy in my marriage.am now looking for happiness outside my home[i mean cheating on him]since he do not care about my welfare.i am working hard to see if i can become financilly ok so that i can b happy with out him even if am still leaving in the same house with him for the sake of my lovely kids.please advice methanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2010): How does staying married secure a better financial future? It sounds like you fear a divorce because he will not help, but it sounds like he wont help anyway, so what do you lose by divorcing? You obviosly have a failed marriage. If you cant get counseling and fix it, I'd move on. Kids will benefit more from a happy mom than an unhappy mom...money does not enter into it
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2010): Save up and leave.
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