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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I really need help. I'm stuck in a marriage with a man i'm not in love with anymore and i'm falling head over heels with one of my best friends. The problem is he is married too. He has told me he doesn't want to be with his wife and it was a mistake to marry her in the first place. I never remember feling this way at all towards my husband he was more of a mate than a lover, whereas this other guy is funny, gorgeous, intelligent, caring and everything i could wish for in the guy i want to spend the rest of my life with. I'm really stuck as i don't know what to do about my husband. I do still love him just not in the way a wife should her husband and i'm not sure my dream guy will leave his wife, even though he has said many times he wishes he never got married. I wish we could both disappear and start again together. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2007): If you feel like this now you absolutely need to get divorced now. You say you love your husband but you do not and things will not improve. Get divorced and leave the other bloke alone as well. Go out and play the field until you fall in love with a single guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2007): Marriage is a commitment.
You make a choice and should not regret just because of a married person that you are falling in love with!
Anyway I think it is a pretty easy decision if you can stick with it. Don't make any future move till the guy decide and divorce his wife.
Why torture yourself if he is not going to? Let him make the decision. But 1 word of caution: if he can divorce his wife for you he can divorce you for another.
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