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writes:I'm still in love with my ex. We were together for about 6 months, although we'd been friends for much longer. She broke up with me almost a year ago. I think I should be over her by now, but I still miss her just as much as I always have. I don't see her much - it was a long distance relationship - but we're still friends, and we still keep in touch.Since we broke up I haven't really met anyone I've been interested in. I'm not sure i will ever find someone else in that way. But even if I do, I think it would be unfair to get involved with anyone else, seeing as I still have feelings for my ex.A few months ago I even asked her how she felt about me, and how she'd feel about giving it another try. She said that she doesn't think about me in that way anymore, and that it would never happen. After that I thought I was starting to get over her, but that didn't last for long.I don't even know what I'm asking. I'd like to ask "will i ever get over her" but no-one can answer that. I don't think I ever will. I guess I'd just like to know if anyone else is in the same situation or ever has been, maybe some words of advice, I don't know. Just some kind of feedback.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2007): All I got to say is that, if you ever get with another girl, you better put this ex behind you because your new girl will NOT like that you may still be in love with her.
And also if you ever fall in love and say i love you to her, and somehow you still in contact with the ex, you better drop her out of your life, else you shouldnt be able to say 'i love you' to the gf because that is not love when you cant put the one you love 1st over an ex.
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reader, aiza  +, writes (3 May 2007):
 Wow you poor guy umm well i personally havnt experienced that but i guess it's hard not being able to get over someone youv'e spent so much time with and memories especially over 6months. You will get over her eventually i mean it seems to me unrequited love so if she says that she doesnt see you in that way anymore it's probably best to leave her be. I mean you can still be friends but she's made it clear. Man you know a guy once said to me you can try so hard but you will eventually have your heart broken by one person in this world and you too will break a few hearts. It's a matter of life and learning about love it can only make you stronger as a person. I guess one way for me i know when i went on a break with my boyfriend was to keep myself occupied play sport, hang out with the family, do chores anything and everything to keep yourself busy. I know them nights get harder but eventually time will heal that void. I wish you all the best remember you deserve all the love in this world and there are others out there waiting for you be patient and be yourself.
God Bless
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