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*Steven"
writes:I have a problem with my best friend I think I'm starting to develope feelings for her. I just don't know how to go about this situation because we have bein friends for about 2 maby 3 three years and I don't feel like ruining my relationship with her. All of my friends make coments like " you guys would make a really good couple" and to make matters worse my mom thinks the same thing. At times it seems like she likes me but then some times I can't tell If she even likes me that way. Somebody plz help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): Drop some hints, like complementing her more often, something like "you look beautiful" instead of "that's a nice t-shirt" which is more of a "friend" thing. See how she reacts and if it seems like she is uncomfortable with you saying that then don't say any more flirty complements and you won't have ruined your friendship. Good luck and i hope this helps. =]
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reader, Starz  +, writes (15 December 2009):
heyy
well i know wat ur going through im in sort of the same situation.
Look out for any hints that she would make that would show that she wants to be more then friends. If your mum thinks that she would make a good gf den she must be a really nice girl. If u dont want to ruin ur friendship thats understandable, she keep being a good friend, but at the same time let her knw that she means alot to u, because alot of successful relationships start of wid friends first. And if she is worth it (she sounds if she is) keep being a good friend for her, at the same time make hints so she would get an idea that there is a chance that you both can be more then friends..
good luck :) x
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