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writes: The girl I liked told me she has just starting going out with someone else. I am properly hurt and I really don't know where I can go from here. She did lead me on as well, my friends told me not to get hung up on her but I did, and I regret it hugely now. What can I do to get over this though? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2011): My friend had the same situation not to long ago , and this advice really helped her, so I am really hoping this will help you too. There are almost 7 billion people in this world. And yeah , you may feel like this person is great , the one for you.. but if you think about it..you're caught up on 1 person , out of 7 billion people. Someday you're going to find someone that's going to love you for exactly who you are, that's going to make you feel special. If you can hold on to the fact that it will happen , it may not be tomorrow or this year , but it will happen. Every single person has someone out there meant for them. If you can hold on to what i've just told you and truly believe that you will find someone deserving , you will get over her. Just remember , she has found someone , don't give up just because you didn't get that one person. Like the others said , go out meet girls . You'll never know who will land right in front of you. Maybe there is someone even already there that you've just never took the time to realize! Open your mind a bit and take in all the options ! Good luck !
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reader, Slash423 +, writes (3 April 2011):
Capri is right, i was in the exact same situation, there was this girl i really liked but i didn't know it until we had become really good friends anyway when i told her she said that she liked someone else and although i never told her, i was really hurt and it took a while to get over her. But now i have found someone else i like and things haven't been better. I guess my point is, hang in there, im sure you will find someone and yea like Capri said, go out and try and meet other girls. Hope this helps and good luck!!
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reader, Capri2 +, writes (3 April 2011):
Start meeting other girls. You will end up finding someone you like and is worth it.
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