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female
age
36-40,
*amo
writes: hi my boyfriend broke up with me 2 months today coz i didnt know who i wanted. me and my ex have been friends for 4 years and he always told me he loved me but i never felt the same way till my friends told me that she can see that there is something between us. but i liked this other guy and found out that he has a girlfriend and didnt think he could ever like me. so i gave it a go wiv my ex and i started to fall for him but aswell i started hanging around with this other guy and my ex and him came close friends.this guy told my best friend that he really likes me and he wanted her to get me and him together as she knew that i liked him. everytime me and my ex split he was the frist one to know. but now me and my ex are not together i ask him if he likes and says he dont like me. i love one of these boys but i dont know which one i love. how do i know which one i love.
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reader, tuorniquet +, writes (22 March 2007):
Your probably dont love any one of those guys. It could just be a simple infatuation. Besides... who knows what love is really. I think that maybe you should get rid of both guys, make a fresh start, have a clean slate. Get a new guy, and maybe you will find you are better suited to eachother and might be a better person to be with rather than an ex who you keep splitting with that doesnt love you and another guy who sounds to also be an on and off. well good luck with everything :-)
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