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writes:Hi,i have a problem, i love my boyfriend and we've been going out for almost 6 months. But there's a couple of things that really irritate me to the point that i don't know if i should just move on. sometimes he can be really loud when its not the right time and it's really embarrassing. He can also be really immature, it's impart just the age but i feel like a lot of times he can't just be normal, like he has to make a creepy face or weird voice or something of that sort, or make unnecessary jokes. But when I think about breaking up with him for those reasons i start questioning if they're just silly and i really do care about him, he can be really sweet and caring and always wants to hold me and tells me how much he loves me. i feel really conflicted. thanks for listening.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (10 February 2009):
 Everyone gets annoyed with each other when they spend too much time together. Mix it up with other friends so you can appreciate your b/f's goofy side the next time it comes out to play. Some people are just playful like that and they never outgrow it. It may have nothing to do with his level of maturity but it may have something to do with your compatability. Some women love a guy when he's goofy and makes her laugh with weird faces and silly voices, other women just find it annoying. You may be less of a playful person than he is. If so, your differences will eventually eat away at your love. I was in a long term relationship with a man who seldom ever played, he was a great guy, but oh so serious too much of the time. I later started seeing a guy who knows how to be silly and make me laugh even at 50 years old, and I just love that about him because I am a playful person and I didn't realize how much I was missing out on all those other years. I wish you the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2009): Everyone has moments when they get miffed at their partner do you think your parents don't annoy eachother?
but they stay because they love eachother
end of the day would you be happier without him?
because whoever you are with in the future will get on your nerves at some point too.
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reader, kitty_3 +, writes (9 February 2009):
 i guess it depends on how often he annoys you. if it's a decent percent of the time, i'd break it off. you love him, but he may not be right for you.
good luck!
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