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writes:hi there, I have this friend, we are good friends, I am sexually attracted to her and have been for a while, about 6 months ago I told her how I felt and unfortunatley she wanted to stay good friends but nothing more.I backed off and treated her as a mate and was there for her whenever she needed me. Recently though (the last 2 weekends) she has been touching my arm and leg whilst talking to me which she has never done before. Last night I went to pick up her and a friend and she came out about 5 mins ahead of her friend, got in car and gave me a kiss on lips. All the time on way home and whilst in her house she kept touching me whilst talking. I don't want to make a move again as don't want to lose friendship!!Advise please Reply to this Question
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reader, sarah_leeds +, writes (26 November 2007):
It sounds to me as if she doesnt really know what she wants herself...she is obviously attracted to you as well. with friendships its a gamble, and only you two can decide whether its worth risking a good friendship for what could be potentially an amazing relationship. I wouldn't make a move, but I would sit donw and talk to her. Ask her about the kiss, and the touching. if she still doesnt want anything more, then you have to tell her to stop leading you on, because thats what shes doing.
just to let you know my best friend fell for one of her friends, now 5 years later theyre married with a child and another on the way. It can work!
Good luck
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reader, DONNA85  +, writes (26 November 2007):
if she kissed you then i think u should keep letting her make the 1st moves and take it by her pace. I have had a friend that liked me before and i turned him down then i started crushing on him and flirting more so when he did it back i wasnt really sure if thats what i wanted. I went ahead and dated him because i felt bad for leading him on and didnt wanna lose him. but i wish that it would have went slower. we arent anything like the friends we use to be!
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