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anonymous
writes:My bestfriend isn't the dating type but I am. I want her to know I love her but I'm scared of what will happen if I tell her that I've fallen for her. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, mialucy  +, writes (26 October 2009):
your enjoying this friendship and i take it so is your friend,dont rush into anything or you could risk spoiling your friendship.you say shes not the dating type!maybe she is telling you that she doesnt want to date anyone else,it could be that she feels the same as you but doesnt know how to tell you.eventually you will have to take the bull by the horns and tell her that you would like to be more then friends,dont rush into telling her you love her (that can be scary)take it easy and see how it develops.I wish you luck and hope to hear how you get on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2009): Take it very slow.
Start with "I really like being with you" and see her reacion.
Take it from there and work up to it but pay attention to her reactions to you, and you will see if you should continue or quit while your ahead.
Or you could just tell her, if she looks unhappy about that, tell her your ok with being friends.
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