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writes:this is sort of complicated.. i bet its a new question.. anyways. im 14 and i have VERY bad stomach problems. ive had a colonoscopy to get checked for colon cancer.. and they found a polyp but thats besides the point. they cant find whats wrong with me so i have no way of fixing it.no matter where i am, im always gassy, and when i got to the bathroom its really bloody (embarrassing) and im scared to have a boyfriend because since the docs dont know whats wrong with me they said it could kill me.plus i dont want to make someone deal with all my problems and my medication i have to take twice a day. plus i eat like a 90 year old man.guys can get over that right? and why cant someone with 8 years of medical school find out whats wrong with me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell the colonoscopy results pointed towards IBD (irratible bowel syndrome) but i have NO symtoms of that at all.
thanks for your answers they were very comforting.
i jst hope i can find someone who can see past that :)
but i really wish i could live like a normal person :( and stop having to eat like a 90 year old man :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell im 14, since it seems someone thought it said 17.. but anyways..
its weird because the colonoscopy results pointed towards IBD (irratible bowel syndrome) but i have NO symtoms of that at all.
but thank you for your answers :) theyre very comforting
but i hope theres someone out there that will see past it.. i hate having the problem and no way to get over it.
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reader, bemused  +, writes (8 November 2008):
 Hi hun
You have not picked the best 'life card' for a seventeen year old...life is complicated eonough at your age and factoring this in really must be making things complicated and confusing for you. You are correct. There will be some guys who will shy away from you...not because they do not find you attractive or a good person but because you sound vulnerable because of your medical condition and vice versa...the two feed on each other. They are not mature and will not want to deal with it. The flip side of this is there could be someone out there who will see beyond all of this and see you for the intelligent and articulate person you seem to be. Perhaps someone who is in your corner will quell your fears a bit and take your mind off your worries. Hun, I so hope you find out what it is that this is. xxxx
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reader, wildcats21 +, writes (8 November 2008):
okay....im 13 years old and i may be able to answer your questions. I don't think you should be afraid...if they really like you they will understand.....they should be able to get over the fact that you have that kind of thing.....and the whole doctor thing...i had something like that happen to me before only i fell off the zip glider in like 4th grade and landed on my hand so the top was on the ground and all my body wieght fell on it....then on top of that on my way into the nurses office i slamed it in the heavy school door....then my dad took me to the hospital and they said that nothing was wrong with it and then like a week later after writing and everything they called and said that they misread the x-ray and it had been fractured and i tore a tissue and it was even worse after that week of writing....i mean they get paid soo much money i think that they shouldn't be making these kind of mistakes and they should be able to find out wuts wrong with u!
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reader, kal +, writes (8 November 2008):
I saw something VERY SIMALAR on TLC "mystery diagnosis" Ill try to look it up. seriously...sounds much like what this woman on their had experienced.
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