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writes:It's a long story. I was in love with a guy who was 19, but i was too young at 14 and I knew it. my friend who was a bit older went out with him for a bit, but she didnt like it and they split up. He said he loved me. i loved him so we went out but kept quiet. my mum found out and she deleted his phone number off my phone and banned me from speaking to him, until i was 17, old enough to make my own decision. I miss him so much, but i know when i'm 17 i can go back to him. i really do love him, it not a little crush.i'm just afraid that everybody will find out. I feel sick when i think about it and its making me so stressed and distracted. What if everybody finds out? my friends and his ex might feel so betrayed and shocked that i went out with him and my school will bully me horribly and think i had sex with him or something (i didnt. i'm afraid my friends will dump me and horrible rumours will be spread. I need help. Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009): well truthfully i dont know what u should do with this.. just go with what u feel is right, i'm kinda in a similar situation and i'm still trying to get through it... all i gotta say is go with what u feel is right and dont worry about what other people think cuz if ur friends dump u just cuz of this it just shows what kinda friends they r.....
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reader, a_seidner06  +, writes (26 August 2009):
 i seriously doubt he will wait 3 years for you..by that time he will be 21..thats old enough to drink in the US..if you live in some other country. He will have a whole new side to him that you might not know. I suggest to let him go..if he ends up finding you or wanting to be with him then so be it. But i doubt he will be there when you turn 17. Who knows, he might just want sex. I was in the same situation but i was 17 and in HS and he was 20 in College...all he wanted was sex and he swore up and down that he was in love as well. And as for your friends and his ex, who cares what they think, they dont feel what you feel inside! Ultimately its your decision, so i wish you the best but keep this in mind! Good luck!
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