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writes: I've been with my bf for almost 6 years and love him very much. He's 25 and I'm 24. We still don't live together but I see him every day. He says he wants to be with me but right now I'm starting to think we are never going to move out together or get married. I know I'm young but I want to get married and start a family. I don't want to lose more years with him if he doesn't want to spend his life with me. Do I give him an ultimatum? Reply to this Question
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reader, becky05 +, writes (7 July 2005):
Dont give him an ultimatum, tell him how you feel, tell him you want to move in together and start planning for a future together, you dont have to rush into anything.The only way to find out what hes thinking is to ask him!
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reader, megz x-x +, writes (31 May 2005):
 It doesn't sound like he doesnt want to make a start with you...but maybe he's just never really thought of it! Men aren't as perceptive when it comes to moving forward with a relationship. Give him the benefit of the doubt. From what you've said, it seems like he loves you very very much and maybe you should just give some not so subtle hints. Get him on his own for a romantic dinner or something and ease into the conversation about where he thinks your relationship stands. It's vital that you do this subtly... otherwise he may get slightly scared! From what he says you should be able to determine where your relationship stands....But try not to give him a harsh ultamatium. You are both quite young, he just might not be ready..you dont want to get married for the wrong reasons.
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